You might re-read your post and notice that you're on the edge of frothing. And if you come off this way to this forum then he might be ignoring you out of self preservation. Sometimes people just need their own space and harassing calls and texts are not going to help matters.
He 'could' be sleeping or chilling or doing something where he wasn't devoting his complete attention to his leash, ahem, cell phone. And that is not addressing the obvious As another Answer states we all deserve to be loved and trusted as faithful until and unless facts should prove otherwise. Doubting him paints him guilty before you've learned anything. Slow down.
Let the anger subside and remember that even husbands and wives deserve alone space periodically. Good luck. Do you do this a lot? I can't say whether he is cheating or not, but calling that much through the night does seem excessive. He's not going to pick up whether he's with someone or alone and asleep or just needs some time to himself. It doesn't seem like a good thing though that both of you are accusing the other of cheating without any real reason to. Not answering his phone all night isn't a sign of cheating Without trust, what is there?
You cannot just justify that flat out cheating accusation about you cheating. He may have a reason for saying that to you, have you asked him why he said that? Now, he must be really tired so didn't hear your phone calls. It's not like he doesn't call you back. You have to trust him. Man need to be trusted if not then he will be frustrated and act cold towards you.
Calm yourself first, then say sorry for not trusting him then talk to him slowly that you don't like it when he does not pick up the phone. If you act calm and all that, he will listen to what you actually going to say. What you are saying does sound slightly suspicious but the fact is you don't have any cold hard proof that he is cheating on you. You just have convinced yourself that he is cheating on you and are overlooking things trying to confirm your suspicions.
Unless he does more things like this just try to forget about it, you have to trust each other to be in a relationship together. I feel like that's the only mistake he made here. I don't think just because he didn't answer his phone that's he's cheating. Plenty of times as well I've had people say "umm I called you 4 times" but meanwhile my phone doesn't even show any missed calls.
Sign Up Now! Related Questions. Show All. He says he wants space, but I haven'tseen him since August? He doesn't even text me anymore? I'm 6 months pregnant with his child also? My boyfriend doesn't think I trust him? Got into BAD fight. He said he wants space? But I haven't seen him since August?
He calls once a day at first; then once a week. Maybe she did, but for whatever reason, she has moved on. This is a difficult thing to accept. Kevin wonders if her phone is broken. Is she receiving my texts? Everything was great! He was a perfect gentleman, they had great times together and they both agreed they liked each other.
Now Kevin is devastated because Kiesha is ignoring him. He goes to Bluff My Call and voila! Kiesha answers. This type of confusion could have been avoided. Is this you? Be careful when you make yourself too available. Sometimes we hurt ourselves : Tonya ignored Peter for a whole month and he still texted her good morning every single day!
But one day, she was bored and searching for a simpleton who would help pay a few of her bills. After a few days, Tonya puts Peter back on the list of people to ignore. Are you a Peter?
Tonya ignored him and thought he would go away as a result. Instead, he made it clear he was still available and still thinking of her all the time.
Save yourself some heartache by ignoring those who ignore you. But be on the lookout for repetition. If you get ignored more than once, and the excuse is always the same, use a little common sense and listen to your gut! Sometimes rejection is hard to swallow.
And texting them. And Facebooking them. And tweeting them. And bumping into them. Got it? Very good quality article! Very true and logical explanations! It really worth reading it and I am sure I learnt things that will be absolutely useful for my future relationships!
Thank you for publishing this article! Oh gosh I completely knocked out on the soda after forcing my eyes to stay open during a 2 hrs commute in traffic coming home from work. Husband calls cos son called him and then he gets into mad panic mode and starts giving me attitude about not answering his calls.
Husband comes gome at 8 rather than 9 dinner had just finished cooking and I get hit with serious interrogation and he curses at me. Why will a person answer their cell phone while busy having sex and not end the call or the sex. Why will someone pretend that they are busy having sex while they are on a phone call. I have a nearly 3 years boy friend, we live together for more nearly 2 years and 6 months, until one day with a good heart I decided to visit home we live in different continents due to emergency.
We talked daily, via video call and chatted night and day. Until last month, I recognized he seems different, distant and cold I just assumed he was probably busy. We always send photos and tells our where abouts of the day. One time he sends me photos of him in a very nice scenery with a detailed perfect capture of the picturesque background so I asked who took his lovely photos, and he said it was somebody who was in the park, but I said wow whoever it is took it really well with so much passion.
In some of the photos I saw a shadow of someone with a long hair, so probably the photographer. Him facing the ocean alone and him walking in the sand. I asked who took the photos because it has so much passion in capturing him and the background.
He said somebody he knows from the place. This time he seems distant and cold and whenever I tel him I missed him he just says ok.
Just cold, if you used to be sweet lovey dovey you know something is different. My intuitions is telling me differently otherwise. One time he commented on someone among his friends and it passed through my wall, the same photo he send me days ago, he even commented on a photo of a woman, with the same length of hair I saw on the shadow.
Here are some of the more common reasons why Millennials aren't answering your phone calls. At no point in your day is taking a phone call not disruptive to whatever else you're working on. Phone calls are distracting, disruptive, and completely throw off your groove. Nobody wants that! When someone calls you, they're assuming at least two things:. On many occasions one or both of these presumptions might be true. But more often than not, the caller comes off as being selfish - even a little insulting - to the person being called.
If it's so important, just shoot a text to set up a call. Texts are virtually guaranteed to be read within a few minutes, and they create a lot more flexibility for everyone. Do you know how much time people spend on pleasantries and howdy-do's everyday? The average person spends over 8 minutes a day just talking about the weather.
T he weather! Add in what the kids have been up to, what that sports team did, what you're going to be doing this weekend, or whatever else, and you've just spent ten minutes talking about nothing. Millennials don't want to answer your phone calls, because there's no telling if doing so will take ten seconds, twenty minutes, or longer.
Remember, Millennials value their time. Think about social media, about texting, even emails. That's it. If there's any follow up that needs to happen, it will be handled accordingly.
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